As parents, we are always observing our children grow, mark milestones and learn about the world. But sometimes, you may begin to notice your child developing in a way that seems somehow different from others their age. If you’re curious about what your child’s odd behaviors might be telling you about the possibility of autism, you’re not alone, and asking questions is an excellent place to start.

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a developmental disorder that impacts the way a person communicates and relates to the world around them. It is said to be “a spectrum” because the signs and the severity of the signs can vary a lot from one child to another.

Why Early Detection Matters

Early diagnosis of autism can make a huge difference. It cracks open the door to therapies, support systems and learning strategies that help your child soar. For many children, the earlier the intervention begins, the better the outcomes are likely to be. (See Autism Research Institute)

Typical Early Signs of Autism (May appear by 2nd birthday)

Here are early warning signs to be on the lookout for. Remember, not every kid will exhibit all the signs, and exhibiting any one or two doesn’t necessarily mean a child has autism. But if you see several warning signs, it’s worth talking to your pediatrician.

1. Speech or Language Development Is Delayed

• Not babbling by 12 months
• No single words by 16 months
• Problems initiating or maintaining a conversation
• Repetition of words or phrases without comprehension (echolalia)

2. Poor eye contact and social withdrawal

• Infrequently gazes at human faces or follows others’ gazes
• Doesn’t smile or react to others’ smiles to you or a face.
• Seems unaware when spoken to

3. Absence of Gesture and Imitation

• Does not point to indicate interest (e.g., at an airplane or animal)
• Doesn’t wave goodbye or clap
• Is very uninterested in copying others (a key aspect of learning).

4. Abnormal Responses to Sensory Stimuli

• Over- or under-sensitive to sounds, lights, textures, etc.
• May not respond to loud sounds, or, conversely, may cover ears to typical sounds
• Intense dislike of particular clothing, food textures or environments

5. Repetitive Behaviors

• Lines up toys  instead of playing with them
• Does a repetitive movement (spinning, flapping, rocking) multiple times
• Insistence on sameness and distress caused by change

6. Little Interest in Peers

• Likes to play by herself or doesn’t pretend to play
• Doesn’t express excitement about other kids or have a hard time with cooperative play

Concerned?

If any of the following signs feel true for you, trust your gut. You don’t have to wait for a diagnosis to get help. Discuss your concerns with your paediatrician. They might refer you for further evaluation, including to a developmental specialist or child psychologist.

You can also request an Early Intervention assessment through your local health department or school district for children under 3. These services are often free and can include speech, occupational or behavioral therapy.

A Note to Parents

Of course it’s natural to feel overwhelmed or unsure but just know this, autism is not a parenting failure. It’s just an alternative way of interacting with the world around you. Autistic children, with love, support and the corrected tools, develop into confident, happy, successful adults. You’re not alone on this journey and there are lots of tools and communities out there to help you along the way.